“I think my girlfriend might be a lesbian; we’ve been together for about over two years and I first started noticing these things when we were in the car and she played some song called The Giver. I didn’t think much of it until the song ended and she mentioned how attractive she found Chappell Roan then she started talking about how she wished I was more feminine. Ever since that I keep noticing her making passive comments about women being attractive and she keeps talking about hating men. I don’t really know what to do or if I should even bring it up in case she is a lesbian.”
PreppyPegasus41: I think that just mentioning Chappell Roan being attractive doesn’t mean she’s a lesbian. But if she is making you uncomfortable with her comments about wanting you to be more feminine, it is totally okay for you to talk to her and break up with her. I wouldn’t push her and ask if she is a lesbian because she probably isn’t ready yet. If she is, just have an honest talk about how her comments make you feel.
SexyDexy696741: Well, I think lots of girls comment on how cute other girls are, so I wouldn’t say that part really makes her a lesbian. The fact that she thinks you should be more feminine is definitely weird in my opinion, and she might be a lesbian, and maybe you are her beard.
TickleTurtle67: Your suspicions might be true…There’s still time to find a new girl for Winfo!
What would you suggest for a teacher who is having trouble getting chatty students to focus in class and listen to each other? 🙂
SexyDexy696741: The first thing I would suggest would just be to talk to them and tell them to cut it out. This method usually works with older kids because they feel embarrassed. If they are freshman or they just will not listen, it’s not a bad idea to separate them, no matter how much they complain. Classes are only 70 minutes and they will be okay without sitting next to their friend for that time.
How are students keeping honest with AI?
SexyDexy696741: I feel like there is no way for students to distinguish between when it is okay to use AI and when it isn’t and it is just too easy for them to try to cheat and take the easy way out. So many students have found loopholes and ways to get around it, even though Ms. McGuire is always saying that you will get caught. I think that the best thing to do is just not even use it or go near it.
PreppyPegasus41: I think it is hard for students to tell when it is okay and not to use AI. I would say that the best thing to do is set strict boundaries so there is no confusion for the students.
Advice for people struggling mentally at school?
SexyDexy696741: The first thing I would always say is mindset. Whether you are overwhelmed by school work or feel like you are losing friendships, change your mind to thinking positively. The next thing I would do is start a journal and a planner. The journal will help you organize your thoughts and a planner helps you organize your days. Also, try to have a small amount of time (it can be anywhere from 10 minutes to one hour) to do something you love. It could be a quick workout, reading a book, or doing some sketches. The school also does have amazing resources if you are struggling, you can always stop by the wellness center to decompress or have a cup of hot chocolate!
TickleTurtle67: Let your body take breaks. Don’t get too stressed on finishing assignments especially if you’re not in the right headspace to finish them. Know that your teachers are here to support you and want YOUR best work, so if you’re not in the position to submit something or take an assessment, always ask for an extension.
I need advice on how to get revenge on my ex-boyfriend who cheated on me. Should I egg his house? Or should I choose to be peaceful and not seek revenge?
PreppyPegasus41: Ooh that sucks. Okay so what I would do is slowly drive past his house every night at the time he gets home. Slow down as you pass. Don’t do anything crazy, just drive normally. Keep it up for a couple months so he notices. Then, stop. And leave a baby doll on his doorstep. It’ll freak him out.
TickleTurtle67: Definitely egg his house. 100%. He deserves no happiness.
LoquaciousLizard69: “Cheater Cheater Pumpkin Eater”. Bake him a pumpkin pie, but on the inside is actually something devious, something creepy. I like PreppyPegasus41’s idea of a baby doll. Maybe you can hide the baby doll’s head in the pie, he will never see it coming.
SexyDexy696741: While my distinguished colleagues give interesting advice, I highly recommend you do not take that road. You will be better off looking for someone hotter and moving on.
“I like her and she likes me and I think we both know it but we pretend we dont”
PreppyPegasus41: Highkey shoot your shot. If she says no, then that’s her loss. I know it’s scary because you can think that if she says no then she will tell people and then you will be embarrassed but most likely she won’t bring it up and nothing will happen. Think about how good you will feel if she confirms that she likes you.
“I think I’m an emotionally immature person in the sense that I often let how I feel in a particular moment dictate how I present myself, regardless of the effect it has on the people around me. I want to be able to snap out of the bad headspaces I get into when I’m sad or upset, because I always feel foolish when I’m in them and after I’m in them because I’m not acting sensible, but I never can. I always feel really childish because of that. My question is: what should I do? Should I stop worrying about how my emotions affect me and just live life per usual or should I try to get a grip and stop letting my emotions have such a strong hold on me. Thanks!”
PreppyPegasus41: This is really deep. I think that it is really strong of you to realize this. I think that maybe sometimes not letting your emotions fully control your actions, because sometimes when we are mad, acting on that can end badly, but also you should acknowledge your emotions and not try to push them down.
SexyDexy696741: Wow, the first step is realizing you have a problem, so, amazingly, you are self-aware. I think it’s not fair to say that you should stop worrying about your emotions because they are a super important part of your life. I think that when you get in that headspace, you should just walk away from the situation and give yourself a minute to think. I feel like this is the best way for you to calm down without affecting others.
TickleTurtle67: I definitely think that you should still be aware of your emotions, but don’t necessarily let them get in the way of how you act towards your friends and the people around you. When I notice I’m having an off day, I usually take myself out of social situations to give myself a break and practice breathing exercises to help calm myself down. However long you need to rejuvenate is completely up to you!
